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Cups

Four of Cups

Learn about the Four of Cups tarot card: dealing with boredom and missed opportunities.

Upright Meaning

The Four of Cups shows a person sitting under a tree, looking unhappy with three cups in front of them. A hand offers a fourth cup, but they don't seem to notice it. This shows someone who might be missing good chances because they're too focused on their own thoughts.

For yes/no questions, the Four of Cups usually means "maybe," suggesting you should look carefully at what's being offered before deciding.

Reversed Meaning

When upside down, the Four of Cups might mean you're ready to get out of your funk and try new things. It can show you're starting to notice good opportunities around you.

For yes/no questions when reversed, it suggests "yes, if you make an effort to change your outlook."

Emotional Associations

  • Thoughtful
  • Quiet
  • Bored
  • Withdrawn
  • Stuck
  • Dreamy
  • Unmotivated

Elemental Associations

Water

Astrological Associations

Moon in Cancer

Historical Significance

In old times, this card showed how people sometimes need quiet time to think, but shouldn't get stuck there too long. It reminded people to balance alone time with staying open to life's gifts.

Practical Use

The Four of Cups helps us in daily life by:

  • Taking time to rest when needed
  • Looking for hidden opportunities
  • Noticing when we're stuck in negative thoughts
  • Finding balance between alone time and being with others
  • Appreciating what we already have

FAQs

What should I do when feeling stuck like in the Four of Cups?
Take some quiet time to think, but make sure to look around for new opportunities. Sometimes the best chances come when we least expect them.
How do I know if I'm taking too much alone time?
If you're starting to feel disconnected from friends or missing out on things you usually enjoy, it might be time to get more involved again.
What's the difference between helpful reflection and unhelpful brooding?
Helpful reflection leads to new insights and better choices. Unhelpful brooding keeps you stuck in the same thoughts without moving forward.